Stuck between 2 guys, please help?

Tell the first guy you are no longer interested in a long term relationship and just want to be friends. If he gets pissed about it and acts like a jerk, you know you made the right decision. Even if he takes it well, keep it as just friends, at least for a while. Why? Well, a person who is untrustworthy, makes you pay for stuff, "emotionally black mails" you and all that other stuff is not a good thing. If he is this way at 18, how is he going to be in a few years? I'm an older guy and I can tell you that guys are at their best behavior early in the relationship. They rarely get BETTER as the years go by. Usually they stay exactly the same and sometimes get worse. As for the second guy, I don't know about him. Maybe you can feel your way through that relationship for a while, but keep your eyes open. Good luck..